20 Questions Exercise  There are few gifts a couple can give each other greater than the joy that comes from feeling known and understood.  Getting to know each other shouldn’t be a chore. 

• Together, without looking at the questions, choose 20 numbers between 1 and 45. 
• Write these numbers in the margin.  Then put your pen or pencil down; the rest of the exercise is verbal. 
• Ask each other the questions corresponding to the  20 numbers in the margin.
• Make note of those you don’t know (it’s something to talk about in the future)
• This is a game.  Have fun playing it and keep things light and positive!!